The pair’s “very fragile” custody arrangement is about to implode, Radar has learned, as the actor is demanding more time with his beloved boy. Wouldn’t it be interesting to know the statistics about how often wives are accused of cheating compared to the actual statistics?Undercover asked 3,000 women and the same number of men if their partners knew about their cheating and found the overall percentage of straying spouses that never get found out is 89 per cent.
I call this stage "Untangling the Skein of F**kupedness." If you're like most betrayed spouses, you spend a lot of time in pointless arguments yelling at your cheater, "WTF?! " or "Does she have some gravitational pull that you're helpless to resist?!
Do not confront the cheater until you've gathered evidence. He didn't find f**kbuddies on Craigslist because of your post-baby muffin top. Stalling for time, acting vague about how they intend to make this right, talking a good game and never coming through on the particulars -- these are all ploys to keep them in the affair. "Oh, I'll just make my needs smaller and smaller, or I'll be so wonderful I'll win them back! All you do with appeasement is give the cheater the green light to abuse you further.
Most cheaters will lie and gaslight you unless you catch them dead to rights, and even then they usually only cop to what they think you already know. Nor did he cheat because you're a bipolar, alcoholic shrew who emasculates him with your rages (although you sound pretty lousy as partners go). Cheaters are 100 percent responsible for their decision to cheat. The cheater needs to decide right then and there -- or you put their crap in Hefty bags and throw it on the lawn for the raccoons.
If you're so busy trying to uncode them, or predict what they'll do next, or prevent them from doing some awful thing, you will just stay stuck.
You can’t turn on the news or open a newspaper without seeing a story about Tiger Woods’s family issues—along with salacious text messages and voicemails that he supposedly sent to his alleged mistresses. There have been many high-profile divorce cases and scandals that came to light through damning evidence generated by or stored on personal tech devices.