When I challenged him, he was embarrassed and then defensive saying it was just harmless flirting and that he had not gone over any line.I still feel really unhappy about what he has done.Explain that the net has gone a little bit crazy and they can’t send messages to specific people. They then reply to the one they’ve just received and so it goes on until each student has a page full of ‘chat’.If you have a big group ask a student or two to help you be the net in the middle. Then give the papers back to the student who wrote the initial question and they can see how the chat developed.
As students have been writing quickly there will probably be lots of silly mistakes they can correct themselves.
I feel a bit betrayed and worry about whether I can trust him.
When I spoke to him again about it, he did apologise and said he won’t do it again but he then came out with a load of stuff about how unhappy he was in the marriage, that we never spend time together (which is true), but I don’t think it is fair for him to blame me.
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