Since these relationships are publicly known, dating exclusively is never a question. Once I got to college, each guy I was into made it clear that we weren’t exclusive.So if we were seeing other people, it would just be “whatever.” I wanted to simultaneously pull my hair out and scream."It's definitely possible, but it's rare, because the chances of you knowing who you want to be with at 40 when you're 17 are kind of low," said Tracey Steinberg, a dating coach. And it's worth the wait if it's real." Going the (long) distance is not easy: Challenges including overcoming communication barriers, resisting the temptation of a fun, new social life and scraping together the finances to visit each other at separate schools. But the next time you grumble about a spotty Skype connection or a pricey plane ticket, think about Barbara Gee and Gordon Baranco.The pair got together at age 16, despite the misgivings of their parents (Barbara is Chinese-American, and Gordon is African-American), who threatened to disown them.We could talk about anything, and it felt like we understood each other completely. They all believed dating was trivial, and that having feelings for someone was weak. I finally realized the importance of each of these people in my life.They wanted to hook up with as many girls as possible, and didn’t care about who they were hurting along the way. One failed relationship and many crushes later, I came to the realization that all of the guys I’ve ever been interested in have taught me important lessons about life and relationships.Meeting a Girl Establishing a Relationship Making It Work Community Q&A Whether you dated a lot in high school or not at all, college is a whole new ballgame when it comes to relationships.There are plenty of opportunities to meet new people, but it can seem impossible to make a relationship work with a busy student schedule.
Most of them seem to hate the idea of any type of commitment.If you're interested in dating a college girl, the key is to find someone with common interests and make spending time with her a priority. Many of us have ended up feeling awful as a result of a college relationship, but never feel afraid to confide, get guidance, and treat yo'self!I'm 21 and I've finally finished university and I'm back at home.I recently got out of a 3 year relationship which lasted all the way through my time at college.