On the flip side, you had your dad during your childhood. He was probably a high drama Alpha Male 1.0 with lots of game, and he probably told you to embrace your assholishness, because that’s what girls like.(At least girls.) Not only does his advice completely conflict with your mom’s advice, but it’s narrowly calibrated towards attracting Hispanic women (maybe) rather than women of other races. You have got to emotionally embrace the proper frames I (and many others) talk about which work best for attracting women of races. I have spoken about Latinxs extensively over the past 2 weeks on FB and have commented on a few of your posts. A little background about me so you can contextualize my perspective. My mother is black and my father is a non blk Colombian.I’m engaged to a Latino man who is 1/2 Mexican and 1/2 Spainiard. I attached a photo of myself for context so you can see I understand this subject quite well from all sides. He let the cat out of the bag and any Latinx in this country who says they’ve never had a family member express similar sentiments is either lying or comes from a rare unicorn family. I was told that my fiancées mother cried when she found out her son was dating a black girl.My hometown of Jersey City, New Jersey is a cultural melting pot, known as a ‘stuck’ town, consisting of newly arriving migrant people who end up finding jobs and never leaving.My childhood coincided with the influx of arrivals coming from Puerto Rico that occurred during 1960-1980.He was already on his way to becoming someone whose personality would not meld with my own.I knew we were doomed back in first grade, though, when I tore out a page from my favorite coloring book to give to him, and he happily took it and then commenced to color the entire thing black.
The survey of over 50,000 European men and women aged 18 to 35 revealed that men in six out of eight countries surveyed (including Britain, Holland, Germany, Italy and France) said they'd like a relationship with a woman from Spain more than any other nation. It would be easy for me to answer that by simply writing two words over and over again: Penelope Cruz. (Although Penny, if you’re reading this, you can find me on Twitter.
Today is the last installment in our racial series.
Prior installments were for black guys, Indian guys, and Asian guys. Based on what I’ve seen, of all the mainstream non-white races, Hispanic guys need the least amount of help in terms of dating and getting girls.
His lack of imagination and dark side tendencies were evident early on, but I digress.
He’s still very attractive, unmarried, and………….where was I?